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Be positive!! Cause we are all here for a limited period of time, is it worth it to spend any of that time in a dismal mood? Being negative??(Blaah)... learning to recognize our gifts is better than finding false and self-imposed inadequacies....

berapa menit lalu posting mengenai hal yang sangaaat negatif hahhahha.. jadi inget mbak met dia pernah ngomong itu, iya sih sebetulnya itu inti dari masalah gw.. "So Negative" or julukan gw "Mizzundastood" wekekekeke baru aja liat postingan bagus, ngefek sih ama gw liat aja ... yah semoga semuanya bikin gw kena (padahal dah banya yang ngingetin, sepasang suami istri murah senyum deket gereja ngajarin gw itu, co gw ngajarin itu.. hehe welah semoga cepat sadar ya kamu nak tita)



6 Ways to be Positive in Any Situation

The power of remaining positive, whatever the situation, can never be underestimated. We are all here for a limited period of time, is it worth it to spend any of that time in a dismal mood? Being negative?

The true test of an individual to remain positive is when challenges become difficult. Remaining positive keeps one’s mind in the right state of balance and often opens resolutions to the problems at hand. Negativity is contagious; not only does it affect the individual, but it spreads to anyone they interact with. When only the negative perspective is in focus, the resolution process is impeded.

Eliminating negativity, or rather, being positive is a mindset that can be found at any moment, and turned into a habit. Here are some tips that can help you in shifting your mindset:

1. Shift Your Thoughts - Be conscious of your thoughts. Especially, when life just isn’t going your way. The moment you see that you are diving into frustration, agony, sorrow and low self-esteem - shift your thoughts, by thinking about something completely unrelated. This breaks the pattern of self-pity, mind-created stories, and negative downward spiral. What makes us different from other mammals is our ability to control our thoughts and think for ourselves.
2. Find the Lesson - There is a lesson to be learned from every situation. No matter how unfortunate the situation may appear, recognize the beautiful lessons waiting to be discovered. Sometimes lessons are expensive, but every problem is a learning opportunity in disguise. You may have made a mistake, but now you can accept it and continue, knowing that you will make a different decision in the future. Understand this and be appreciative for the experience.
3. Attitude of Gratitude - You cannot be both angry and grateful at the same time. Start counting the blessings and miracles in your life, start looking for them and you shall find more. What’s there not to be grateful? You are alive and breathing! Realize how lucky you are and all the abundance in your life.
4. Positive Affirmations & Visualization - Practice seeing yourself in a positive and confident light. Do this whenever you have a few minutes (examples; Waiting for a friend, sitting on the bus, riding an elevator.) Self-affirmations (list of positive statements about yourself and your self image) are another simple and powerful tool to train your subconscious to see yourself in a positive light. This is important, as many of us can be so hard on ourselves though social conditioning. I am guilty of being extra tough on myself, but have learned over time to recognize my gifts rather than finding false and self-imposed inadequacies.
5. Inventory of Memories - Keep an inventory of memories that can immediately make you smile. Occasions where you felt happy, appreciative and cheerful. When you were at peace with the world. Whenever you are in a negative frame of mind, consciously and deliberately pick up any leaf out of this inventory and dwell on it. Reminiscing those happy moments gives a balanced perspective to your situation. You realize that what appears negative today will change tomorrow. Nothing stays the same.
6. Criticizing Detox Diet - Change your approach and attitude. See if you can stop criticizing others and situations. Our cultural conditioning teaches us to find flaws and problems at all times. Shift from fault-finding to appreciation-finding.

Mau nyatu sama orang kok pikirannya pisah, mau baik sama orang kok pikirannya dendam, mau maju kok under estimate sama diri sendiri, hayooh... hehehe selama ini gw mikir dia nggak peduli sama gw, itu salah, ternyata ada beberapa hal yang nggak gw ketahui ngebentuk karakter gw jadi lebih baik dalam bersikap, dia ngajarin gw banyak hal, dari baby stepp, mandiri blablabla... thanks God udah pertemuin gw sama dia, gw sayang sama dia banget, n gw cuma bisa berharap kita bakal rukun n jadi satu selama lamanya, seterusnya gw pasrahin sama Tuhan....

bonyi :D
makasih udah aku mikir banyak hal buat kemajuanku mis :
Gak nunda kerjaan, gak ngeyel, jangan bingung sekalipun di situasi mendesak, jangan ketergantungan sama siapapun, pede, kekeuh sama tujuan hidup, belajar belajar n belajar...


luv u...

Baru kali ini gw ngerasain dilema, dari awal sampe sekarang, dimana gw sayaang banget sama orang, yang gak jelas bener2 menginginkan gw (perasaan gw aja), dari awal gw suka sama dia udah bikin bingung, banyak yang dia omongin ngarah ke konsekuensi yang harus gw ambil, contoh kasarnya "gw mau lo berubah, tapi lo harus terima gw apa adanya" blablabla, gw sayang sama dia, bahkan takuuuut banget kehilangan dia, tapi gw gak tau apa dia takut kehilangan gw?? Jujur dia udah kayak kakak, pacar dan semua buat gw, oke kekurangan gw yang masih terlalu kekanak kanakan bikin dia sebel, tapi gw mau berubah demi dia, gw gak tau apa nyampe ke dia, kalo gw emang pengen bener2 bangun semua hal bareng sama dia, tapi gw gak ngerti dari ungkapannya gw gak boleh bergantung sama dia, emang gw harus mandiri, tp gw gak tau, kedekatan gw sama dia, keluarga besarnya bikin gw ngerasa diterima, gw gak pernah ngerasain itu di keluarga gw, jujur selain itu yang bikin gw bener2 pengen bareng dia, ada satu perasaan yang gw gak tau apa namanya, yang jelas kalo emang sampe gw kehilangan dia, udah kayak lagu "they can't take that away from me........... so sampai mana ini berjalan ya Tuhan??

sumpah gw bingung bgt ngadepin dia..maaf gw emang terbiasa dengan habbit gw yang jauh beda sama dia, gw sayang ma dia.... cuma emang susah nyatuin dua kepala yang berbeda, apalagi hubungan gw juga sama masalah kerjaan, oke gw gak mau hubunagn gw ancur ma dia, ya g bilang terlalu berharga aja.. cuma gw gak tau kadang masalah kerja bisa berantem gede.. oke gw masih kayak anak kecil, kadang kalo lagi baru bangun tidur ditanya kerjaan gw agak ngerungkel, dia bete masalah it, n betenya malah bikin gw mikir aneh2, n kadang masalah gw yang dulu diinget terus, iya gw mau berubah, tau gw bebel mungkin, gak berubah juga... sumpah gw binguuung... mungkin emang nggak ada yang cocok ama gw??? gw sedih banget setiap berantem ma dia.... gw mau berubah skap tapi kadang nongol lagi, ingetin gw aja nggak usah pake ngambek... gw maunya gt... coz gw gak mau hubungannya jadi aneh n canggung... maafin ya bonyiii.... aku nggak bosen sama kamu, aku juga pengennya semua berjalan lancar.... semoga....